Okay, to be honest, money is always preferred, simply because we’re pretty much funding the celebration ourselves with some help from the folks and it would ease our pain and help me enjoy throwing Allen and myself off a cliff in NZ. Glad that’s off my chest.
However, I’d never ever have the audacity to say no to a present 
. The problem is, is that I’m a tad bit fussy so here’s a guide… no teddy bears, no Precious Moments… no girlie-cutie-pie stuff. You can’t go wrong with black/ dark brown photo frames, funky tableware from Tangs or the like, candles which remind me of an island getaway, glassware to toast to everlasting happiness maybe a ball and chain for Allen and a whip for me. hur hur hur.
